What I See As The Romantic Ideal honoring the differences between men and women
Replying to this video clip: ( Link ) I wrote: How I feel about it, as a masculine man: This tells me that the woman hasn't yet (and might never) take full responsibility for her head-space, attitude, and behaviors. So they need a man who will be a father, to wield discipline over her. But what I find attractive and functionally-best in a partner is a woman who has matured to the point where she can reliably self-discipline. Even more importantly, it's crucial that she doesn't really have some adolescent or chaotic storm of emotional dysregulation. If she has such problems, then it will become *my problem*. Some women think it should be like this. They think it's what a man is supposed to do for a woman. But I don't agree. The man that I am should really never accept responsibility (especially not a life-long social contract) for disarming a woman's occasionally-weaponized personality. When I hear a woman admit to needing, seeking, and/or feeling entitled to...