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How I Experience Data, Connection, and Relationships

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Before I get back to work, I want to share this with anyone who might accidentally end up seeing this. THIS is the way I think about (and actively engage with) both personal connection-building and online resourcing. Online,  I don't doomscroll. I don't binge. Instead, I thoughtfully network with all people and within all systems.    In person,  I read body language while sending and receiving active streams of spoken and unspoken energies, all of which are useful forms of data. These energies are all potential opportunities for clarity and/or connection.  Not all clarity is happy-making. Much of it will always be painful. But even then, I find myself empowered.  In the calm of solitude, I process and clarify.  I then prepare to continue, each following day. I *make the time* to intentionally connect with other humans via our energy-based root system. These include all of our communication and connection systems. For me, it's the same as how any My...

When A Fellow Sincere Gentleman Is Confused By The Unaccountable Sexist Nonsense Of Unhealed And Undateable Women

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Today, our adventurous exploration of 3rd- and 4th-Wave Feminists begins on an unhealed woman's FB Group/Page.   Sherri Bothwell   o p e s o t n d S r t 1 m 6 l a i 1 9 6 t c l 8 l c h h 7 t 8 2 i 3 2 2 9 h 9 t c 8 3 a m 5 8 u t h 0 5 8 9 u 5 i 7 u 0   · Saying “not all men” is like saying “it’s definitely me”. Jonathan Miller I dont get it... some people just find generalization frustrating and dangerous. I understand this is about dangerous men, and that never needs to be silenced. But isn't this potentially harmful to the issue? Your profile states youre "exposing harmful beliefs systems." Is this not just another harmful belief system that can potentially detract from the issue? If someone says all women are dramatic or irrational, would it be ok? Would no women stand up and say no, not true. Or if someone claimed all *insert group* are violent, would it be wrong if participants of that group speak up, and hopefully OUT, against those causing the harm. While also ...